Purple Prize Contest – Halfway checkin pupus and planning 


Last night the MaiTai’d team: me, Brian, and Stanley attended the Purple Prize Contest checkin with the Purple Mai’a stakeholders at Halau Inana.

It was good to see Nohea, Kelsey, and Forest from the last meeting. During the checkin we shared our progress with the stakeholders and received feedback on the viability of our project.

I took notes after the checkins and this morning I had a new idea for the project, should we need to pivot:

Backyard sea level gauges for the masses

Hear me out. Putting together disparate pieces of information that I have gathered through talking about plummeting cost of sensors with Brian, seeing how easy this EE was for Stanley, talking to the Fishpond owners at the Loko I’a event a few weeks ago, discussing the conversation from tide date to conservation data, and finally discussing the scaling of the project with Forest gave me “cheerumata” – new eyes in Indonesian.

I’m looking forward to bringing the NOAA tide data from Coconut Island into the graph this weekend. Really looking forward to “drying out” the code that I already wrote to get started on the programming binge this weekend.

Let’s do this! Go team MaiTai’d!

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Empathy absorbs tension

This will be the first in 5 posts I’m doing on the book “Verbal Judo – The Gentle Art of Persuasion” by George J. Thompson, Ph.D.

A few months ago I finished reading Verbal Judo. How did I find this gem? I had asked my Dad for recommendations on books that strengthen grit and give advice on dealing with people effectively. I’d already read “Grit” by Angela Duckworth and I wanted something more actionable. Verbal Judo was exactly what I was looking for.

Today’s post will focus on the following quote:

“Here is the bottom line of all communication: Empathy absorbs tension. It works every time.” – Thompson

Have you ever struggled to connect with people. Do you wonder why they don’t listen to you? You have great ideas. Why aren’t they willing to listen?

The answer to that question is a lot simpler than you think. They don’t listen because you don’t listen.

“Empathy means “to see through the eye of the other.” – Thompson

I’ve heard this a lot growing up. In order to see how a man sees you have to look through his eyes. In order to know how a man experiences the world, you need to walk in his shoes.

Yes, easy right?

I’ve had the hardest time empathizing because my empathy comes with some kind of agreement that the other person will listen to me next. This comes through much more clearly than you think. You can’t hide it.

Just take a moment here. Think of the last time you were talking to someone and you could just see it on their face. They are ready to say their point without even letting you finish yours.

This is the opposite of empathy.

So how do you show empathy? Stop trying. Just do it.

“Do or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda

Do this next time

Next time you’re listening to someone pour out their heart and soul to you just do one thing. Pay attention. Find the parts they are struggling most with. Locate the points where they trail off. Those are the most meaningful comments that few are brave or willing to follow up on, ask for clarification, and rephrase back to the person in need of empathy.

Thompson suggests the following:

“The next time you have an argument, before you start snapping back and using your words to address your own feelings, why not stop and analyze. What is the problem? How does my opponent see it? How is my opponent different from me? What constraints make it so difficult to deal with him today? And remember to keep a concerned and caring face. That in itself is often enough to deflect abuse.” – Thompson

Have you tried this out? Let me know how it worked out for you.

Hawaii iOS Developer Meetup – Session 33

We’ve all been waiting to try it out. All I needed was a deadline to give me the push into installing Xcode 9 beta 4 and upgrading iOS on my iPhone from 10.3.3 to iOS 11. The gains are huge. Perhaps the best thing I’ve noticed on iOS 11 has been the screen recording feature. Amazing!

During this meetup we had a chance to cover ARKit. I’m floored. Absolutely floored by this technology. I set up the this session so that we could have witness the tech hands-on. In order to prepare for this session I watched the WWDC 2017 video on ARKit. Then I searched YouTube for a tutorial video from Jared Davison.

While I was searching for tutorials I was busy installing Xcode 9 and iOS 11 on my devices. Both of these pieces of software are needed to develop and play with Augmented Reality for the iPhone.

I really like how ARKit projects have a very interesting screen lag. Sounds strange but, this is starting to feel like the future.

Next week Adam Smith will be covering Architecture 101 at the meetup. Please RSVP if you’re interested in attending. Don’t forget, we’re meeting at the iLab on Thursdays at 6pm!