Shape your material into a specific story structure and it will pass through to the conscious mind with few, if any, internal alternatives

“If you shape your material into a specific story structure, then it will pass through to the conscious mind with few, if any, internal alternatives, additions, and restructurings. Your story reaches the conscious mind, not some other story created by the receiver’s own mind.” – Haven

How many times have you heard someone say, “You need to own your story!”? I never really knew what it meant. Then I came across this quote,

“Make sure you set your own priorities. Because if you don’t, people will make their priorities your priorities.” – Unknown

What happens when you don’t advertise who you (or your product) are clearly? Do people even know what you stand for? Actually, what do you stand for? Having a hard time answering that question? Then it might be time for you to do some journaling. If you don’t know your story, how do you expect others to?

Oprah famously said, “You teach people how to treat you.”

Dr. Phil goes on to say,

“Say your bossy friend always picks the restaurant you hate. If you’d rather keep silently resenting her instead of speaking up, then don’t change a thing. (By the way, there is a payoff here for you, too; maybe you don’t want to put any effort into making a decision, or you enjoy feeling wronged.) But if you want to see a different result, then you need to teach her how to treat you.

Why aren’t you challenging her when she ignores your opinion? You’re the one who is refusing to say, “Wait a minute, I’m really in the mood for someplace else.” The only person you control is you—which is great news, because you’re the one who has been letting her call the shots time and time again” – Dr. Phil

In “Story Proof: The science behind the startling power of story,” Kendall Haven writes:

“If you shape your material into a specific story structure, then it will pass through to the conscious mind with few, if any, internal alternatives, additions, and restructurings. Your story reaches the conscious mind, not some other story created by the receiver’s own mind.” – Haven

It’s important to know how your story functions.

It’s important to structure your story in a way that other people will understand you, how you operate, and what you need. It’s even more important to make sure you’re telling yourself the right story.

Let’s play a game.

Take a moment to write out your story. Do this alone. Don’t let someone else tell you what your story is. This is the time you’ve blocked off for yourself to check-in.

Get out a piece of paper. Set a timer for 5 minutes. And get busy answering the following 3 questions:

  • What is my personal story?
  • What is my work story?
  • What is my family story?

Now read over what you wrote.

Does it make sense? Is there a clear beginning, middle, and end? Now go find someone you trust. Read your story back to them. Ask them what parts are unclear.

Make notes of what parts are unclear. Revise what you wrote with feedback from your trusted friend.

Repeat this process with other trusted friends. Keep revising until you get responses that the story is clear.

Now that you have a clear story. Look to see if this really defines who you are. Are there parts to the story that could be integrated better? Are there glaring inconsistencies in your story? Patterns?

This exercise should give you a chance to get clear on what parts of your story are clear and what areas need work. Finally, ask yourself, “What parts of my story can be ripped away?” Old beliefs holding you back?

You write your story. If it’s crystal clear, you won’t leave any room for misinterpretation.

You write your story. Make it a good one 🙂

Hawaii iOS Developer Meetup – Session 9

Another great meetup at HICapacity in Manoa. The topic of the night was Git workflow and TDD.

I was happy to share my experiences with TDD during most of the meetup. I took a poll at the beginning of the meetup to find out who was familiar with git. All hands raised. I pivoted the talk from easy git commands to the one that I have used the most:

git reset –hard ALPHANUMERICHASH

I’ve used this single command so many times, I thought it was the most important part of using git. And I wanted to share it. So I did.

We ran into a few issues during the meetup. I created a folder with the swift project on my computer. I initialized the project with a git repo on the computer.

Then, after I had finished adding the files and creating a commit, Tyler mentioned the need to push to github to keep the files backed up. Tyler made a good point so I logged into my github account and created a new public repo.

I started going over the merits of github, the little green squares, issues, the ability to share OSS with other creators, etc. Then, right before I was about to finish creating the repo we started discussing the dropdowns for .gitignores and a license.

Having discussed the .gitignore and different licenses, I had to create them for this repo. Unfortunately, we ran into pull and merge problems when I added the github origin to my local folder being managed by git.

I ended up moving the files to a different directory on my machine, rm -rf’ing the .git in my folder, initializing git again locally, adding the origin, pulling the changes, moving the project files back into the directory, adding the files to git, and finally committing them.

Only after all that reconfiguring, was I able to successfully push my files to the newly created repo. Still working on best practices. Happy for the opportunity to work with a bunch of great iOS developers in a group setting.

If you’re interested in attending the meetup, please RSVP on the meetup page.

Hawaii iOS Developer Meetup – Session 8

Another fantastic meetup. We finished coding Tetris. John took the project a few steps further in his spare time. He got the console to set itself at a fixed width and height. He got input controls working. Fantastic stuff. A testament to the problems that are solvable by time, determination and interest in the subject matter.

We discussed the difference between tuples and structs. To be honest, I’ve never used structs in my programs before. John saw that I had created the piece offset as a tuple and asked me why I didn’t make it as a struct.

He walked me and the rest of the meetup attendees through the process of updating the code to use a struct instead of a tuple. This was a fantastic exercise in group refactoring. The pace of our discussion was also ideal.

Troy, a new attendee, was able to ask more basic questions about the language. And on explanation, I was able to learn more aspects of the things I already knew.

Loving the meetup. We’re covering Test Driven Development and Git workflow on Thursday. RSVP if you’d like to attend!

People often move their lips or make speech sounds as they read, which can make them project their own voice into the other person’s text

If Freud were alive and guiding 21st-century people through analysis today, he would have written “Virtually You: The Dangerous Powers of the E-Personality.” Aboujaoude’s patients’ notes (with all names changed to protect the innocent) provides a great baseline to begin discussing the strange and insidious new problems that come with living life online.

Ever think of the process communication goes through? How it’s groomed by those who benefit from it. And edited by those who want to come across a certain way?

Pay attention to the ways you reprocess communications. This includes text messages and emails.

Do you ever find yourself reading over text messages and saying them aloud? Do you notice how the voice, intention, and requests change as they become your voice?

In Virtually You: The Dangerous Aspects of the E-Personality, Aboujaoude writes:

“People often move their lips or make speech sounds as they read, which can make them project their own voice into the other person’s text. The result can be that the conversation is experienced as taking place in one’s own head, much more a soliloquy than the dialog that it really is between two separate entities.”  – Aboujaoude

Stop reading your own meanings, worries, and hangups into the text messages you receive.

“Since talking to oneself is generally considered safer than talking to someone else, the result is more indiscriminant openness and less responsible disclosures, not to mention a dissolution of boundaries between “self” and the “other.” This dissolution, we will see, does not help our universal goal of psychological independence and healthy autonomy.” – Aboujaoude

When I find myself rereading texts to search for hidden meanings I know it’s game over. Time to put down the phone. Time to go for a run. Time to lift weights. Time to do something that expends energy that I am wasting aggressively rereading text messages to get some kind of upper-hand, moral superiority, or to rewrite my views of how things “actually” went down.

Now I’d like to hear from you.

What do you do to keep yourself from revisiting old conversations, replaying them in your head, or envisioning how this all would have all turned out if you had just done this one thing differently?

I’d love to hear what works for you. Email me with your suggestions.

Moore’s Law is not about transistors it’s about the mechanics of human belief

I finished my undergraduate bachelors in Computer Science at the University of Hawaii at Manoa in 2007. Moore’s Law was drilled into our eager brains from the first day of class. It’s the kind of easy concept that is so simple no one bothers digging for deeper meaning. Let’s do it!

Here’s how Wikipedia explains it:

“Moore’s law is the observation that the number of transistors in a dense integrated circuit doubles approximately every two years. The observation is named after Gordon Moore, the co-founder of Fairchild Semiconductor and Intel, whose 1965 paper described a doubling every year in the number of components per integrated circuit, and projected this rate of growth would continue for at least another decade. In 1975, looking forward to the next decade, he revised the forecast to doubling every two years. The period is often quoted as 18 months because of Intel executive David House, who predicted that chip performance would double every 18 months (being a combination of the effect of more transistors and the transistors being faster).” – Wikipedia

Imagine how surprised I was reading Kevin Kelly’s What Technology Wants when he quotes Moore:

Moore says, “Moore’s law is really about economics.”

What does that mean? Sounds like Moore’s Law is a prophecy about the strength of the infrastructure surrounding the manufacturing of transistors.

Kelly goes on to say,

Carver Mead made it clearer yet: Moore’s law, he says, “is really about people’s belief system, it’s not a law of physics, it’s about human belief, and when people believe in something, they’ll put energy behind it to make it come to pass.”

Mead defines Moore’s Law further:

“After [it] happened long enough, people begin to talk about it in retrospect, and in retrospect it’s really a curve that goes through some points and so it looks like a physical law and people talk about it that way. But actually if you’re living it, which I am, then it doesn’t feel like a physical law. It’s really a thing about human activity, it’s about vision, it’s about what you’re allowed to believe.”

What concepts do you leave on the table? What beliefs have you actually tested? Hindsight’s 20/20. What predictions can you make to alter (and guide) the beliefs of your customers?

Hawaii iOS Developer Meetup – Session 7

We programmed Tetris yesterday at the meetup. I was surprised at how long it took to code up Tetris before the meetup. I used a single dimensional array to store the game piece and the game board. Bad move. Translating the index of an array to a differently sized array was a nightmare. An hour before the meetup I recoded Tetris with multidimensional arrays — Instant coordinate system.

There’s a technique Hemingway used when he wrote novels and short stories. He’d write until he caught a good tailwind, then, just as abruptly as he started, he would stop in the middle of writing.

Halfway through writing, his brain wouldn’t have the chance to fully express what it wanted to — no closure. This meant that his brain would continue to sift and sort his thoughts until the next day when he would dive into writing with gusto to finish what he started writing the day before.

I suspected the same effect exists in coding.

Stopping in the middle of implementing a function might not be the best place to stop. So I stopped when the game functioned well enough but contained a visual bug.

The bug gave us an opportunity to talk about Swift on a deeper level without being too invested in setting up a new project to have something specific to talk about.

If you’re interested in compiling, testing the code yourself, and checking out the bug, here’s a link to the repo.

This is a cool bug. It’s giving me ideas about other games that would benefit from this kind of visual oddity. Kind of like glitch art. The piece is placed on the screen then “melts” down the page. It’s kind of cool. How would you fix it?

We’ll be tackling piece rotation and scoring next week Thursday at the Hawaii iOS Developer Meetup. Please RSVP if you’re interested in attending.

Great leaders don’t innovate the product, they innovate the factory

My Mac Book Air (mid-2011) has been running slow during the meetup. It’s fine for light coding but it drags when I run a bunch of tests, swarm program on ScreenHero, or screenrecord during a presentation.

My product is suffering because I can’t upgrade the factory.

I wanted to upgrade the RAM from 4 gigs to 16 gigs. So I went to the Apple Store.

The Apple Store doesn’t do RAM upgrades on the model I have and they suggested that I contact Mac Made Easy, a third party apple store and repair shop.

“Hi, I have a mid 2011 Mac Book Air and I’d like to update the RAM.”

The tech on the phone said, “Hold on, did you say mid-2011? We could do it for you. But it’s going to be very expensive. They’ve soldered the RAM to the motherboard.

Not being able to update the RAM on my computer is infuriating. Especially because I love everything else about the computer.

My product is my code. My product is sharing information at the meetup. My product is connecting people through code. My product under-performs because my Mac Book Air can’t take on more RAM without undergoing a very expensive procedure.

In other words, the product suffers if you can’t innovate the factory.

I haven’t determined what I’m going to do from here. But I wanted to post a quote about the misguided goal of innovating the product when you should really be innovating the factory.